Does happy ever after exist in one’s marriage?
The straight answer is no. Married life is full of challenges and unresolved issues.
There are married couples who have become incompatible due to emotional neglect or unexpressed feelings.
The power of attraction from the perspective of married women is not just all the time symptom of cheating or a failing relationship.
Women being fixated on other men can be a pattern of emotional attachment that their partner must determine why it happens.
If you are the partner, don’t dismiss this attraction easily. Pay attention to why this is happening to her.
Why Does It Happen?
Attraction happens for a reason. Most of them are driven by the fact that there are women who lack emotional attention from their partners.
Another factor can be that they are lonely or having personal struggles despite being in a relationship.
It doesn’t immediately mean that these women are not loyal, contributing to the doom of their marriage life, or are naturally home-wreckers.
When women’s emotional aspect is either met or given attention, they tend to connect to the one who provided them with that comfort.
Things Women Do When They’re Hooked on Another Man
Feelings begin with attraction, an ideal sense of being emotionally connected to another man. But once a married woman is hooked to the man, it becomes a quick relationship check.
Here are the things that you should know when women become hooked on another man:
His Name is Always Included in the Conversation
When a woman highly mentions the name of another guy in every aspect of conversation, that guy has occupied the woman’s psychological space.
It means that the woman forms an emotional connection with that guy because she loves the attention she’s getting.
Slowly Becoming Emotionally Distant
A woman who is still physically and emotionally invested in you will share her whole life with you.
But when that vibe slowly phases out, even if she is physically present, that means another guy got her entire attention after she felt that you were ignoring her attempt at emotional connection.
Seems Sudden Privy to Her Phone
A woman who seems too privy about her phone, suddenly yet too invested, that could be concerning to your relationship.
Although boundary is healthy and normal, a sudden need to put her phone in private mode could mean she is emotionally invested in another.
Her Mood Swings Not Because of You
Sometimes, a silence in a relationship can cause overthinking or irritation in a woman. The type of silence where she feels no thrill in the relationship.
If her mood changes a lot through a text or news that has nothing to do with you, that means she is emotionally attached to something or someone else.
Becomes Too Conscious with Looks
Observing your woman to have an extra groom at an event where you are not present means two things.
They just want to look good, or they want to look good for a specific person.
If she’s not that conscious when it comes to you, that means she is trying to reciprocate the emotional connection she’s getting from someone else.
Overprotective of Him
A woman who is overprotective of another guy means that she is emotionally connected to the guy, even if you mean nothing negative in your remarks.
She could mean that her connection to the guy is stronger than yours.
He’s The First One to Know
A woman who is into you always treats you as her first. You would be the first to know anything about her.
But when another guy fills that gap, that means your relationship failed to be emotionally grounded.
Comparison
A married woman would never compare her husband to another guy. When this happens, it means that you have not secured the necessary emotional connection she needs.
Comparing your effort to a guy means her heart is fixated on the attention she got from someone else.
Does Nothing to the Attraction
When a married woman doesn’t want to acknowledge that this level of attraction is affecting the relationship, that would grow into getting hooked on another guy.
If the woman decides to label that attraction as a nuisance to her current marriage, that attraction would not grow.
Regardless of how much emotional connection and attention she can get from the guy.
What Should I Do?
The way to a woman’s affection is through her emotions.
It’s not because women are emotionally weak. But because they would want to spend their time and life with men who can meet their emotional needs.
Knowing why women are attracted to other men is a sign of their lack of or ignored emotional attachment.
As the partner, you must be emotionally aware of why it happens and what you should do to secure your emotional connection.
To Be Emotionally-Attended is a Woman
Women become confident and empowered if their emotional aspect is well-attended.
That’s the reason why they prefer to be with the man who they believe would not make them lonely or ignored.
If a married woman is attracted to somebody else, their partner tends to space them out emotionally.
Before that attraction can wreck the relationship, it is better to communicate with each other.
Being attracted to others as though finding an emotional attachment where their feelings can take root will be a bigger problem in the relationship later on.